Being dateless for over two years, I came
into a brave decision that I will only go into a relationship if I’m very sure
of the person. My past had never been a secret with you guys and I can tell
that I was traumatized to the point that I accepted the fact that there’s a
bigger chance that I will not get my fairy tale ending.
Though I’m not closing my doors to people
who might actually love me and Edmund, in the mean time, I keep myself busy and
guarded. Juggling freelance work every now and then, maintaining my blog and YouTube
Channel and also studying. All of those are done in the comfort of my home.
Some people would ask me “Aren’t you getting bored?” some say “You need to go
out, meet new people”.
Who said that I am not meeting new people
online? You must haven’t heard about dating website.
I joined online dating sites few months
after my then partner and I broke up just because I wanted to vent my
frustrations and disappointments to people who doesn’t know me, to free myself
from judgemental people and it’s really nice to start a new life with
strangers.
Why pay for dating when you can do it
online right?
However other people mistaken dating sites
user to be either gold digger or looking for something fun- right? We have to
admit, some people here in the Philippines are quite judgemental.
Little did they know in the meeting people
online can sometimes be more realistic than people you meet face-to-face and
that’s a fact.
What are the advantages of using online
dating?
You can easily find people with the same
interests. When talking to people online, you will easily find people to talk
to- that’s a known fact but you will easily detach people who likes, thinks and
have the same interests as you do.
You can easily shrug people you find
irritating. Not all people are nice online, some people you may find them a
little arrogant, some may seemed to be perverts so bee open with this kind of
people. You may easily block them off your life and never be connected to them
again.
You can date at your own phase. If you
think you’re ready and date, if you want to lie low, stay offline, if you don’t
will stick to no dating state, you may delete your account- as simple as that.
On my very own personal opinion, people
that I’ve met online and got the chance to know them personally are less
judgemental and more liberated than those whom I’m meeting personally.
There are people who succeed in finding
their forever after online, I can attest to that, I’ve known some people whose
relationship grew and ended into marriage. I feel very happy for the, but at
the mean time, I want to focus on myself and my son, and in the mean time, find
connections online. There’s no harm in trying right?
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